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I have read a number of articles written by PhD's, first-hand accounts of women who've been raped, and comments on various forums like this one at Yahoo! Answers. They all seem to state that women who achieve orgasm during rape do so because a) the bodies reaction to fear is so intense that it escalates their orgasm response or b) the rapist is able to, either because of his being in a secure environment where he has the time or because he simply is able to "last", make the female orgasm because the act lasts long enough to cause the females body to exhibit the natural "physiological response to the stimulation of a females erogenous zones".
I find this to be a bit hard to believe seeing as almost all of the women whose rapist was able to continue the act for an extended period of time was able to make the woman achieve orgasm. This is no different than a woman who can't have an orgasm during sex with their partner; a longer sexual session heightens the possibility of the female achieving orgasm.
If you take only the statistics of women who have had a rape that lasted a lengthy amount of time, those women's rate of orgasm would be very high than if you lumped all rape occurrences together where the rapist lasted only a short time.
I only bring this up because I have never met a woman who hasn't had a rape fantasy (and I understand that their are those who feel there is a difference between fantasy and reality, i.e. the female is in control of her fantasy, but she has no control during rape although I personally feel, and have many female friends who admit that if the rapist was a very attractive man that they would not only submit to his domination but would most likely orgasm because of his assertiveness and their feeling of being desired to the point of rape). Women want and desire a somewhat sophisticated (although that is a luxury) caveman who will simply drag them off by their hair and have their way with them, especially if this caveman resembles the men they fantasize about and read about in their romance novels or that they see onscreen or onstage.
So, do women really only orgasm during rape because it is an accidental response to stimulus that they are unable to control or do women inherently have some part of their biology that responds sexually to the extreme sexual advances of a domineering male, who in turn makes them feel, in some strange way, the object of his unquenchable desire.
I find this to be a bit hard to believe seeing as almost all of the women whose rapist was able to continue the act for an extended period of time was able to make the woman achieve orgasm. This is no different than a woman who can't have an orgasm during sex with their partner; a longer sexual session heightens the possibility of the female achieving orgasm.
If you take only the statistics of women who have had a rape that lasted a lengthy amount of time, those women's rate of orgasm would be very high than if you lumped all rape occurrences together where the rapist lasted only a short time.
I only bring this up because I have never met a woman who hasn't had a rape fantasy (and I understand that their are those who feel there is a difference between fantasy and reality, i.e. the female is in control of her fantasy, but she has no control during rape although I personally feel, and have many female friends who admit that if the rapist was a very attractive man that they would not only submit to his domination but would most likely orgasm because of his assertiveness and their feeling of being desired to the point of rape). Women want and desire a somewhat sophisticated (although that is a luxury) caveman who will simply drag them off by their hair and have their way with them, especially if this caveman resembles the men they fantasize about and read about in their romance novels or that they see onscreen or onstage.
So, do women really only orgasm during rape because it is an accidental response to stimulus that they are unable to control or do women inherently have some part of their biology that responds sexually to the extreme sexual advances of a domineering male, who in turn makes them feel, in some strange way, the object of his unquenchable desire.